Why am i looked down upon for respecting men?

I don't see you as weak at all, as long as he submits to you as much as you submit to him. A relationship is a team, 50/50. It's kind of refreshing not to have feminism slapped in my face. What is so wrong with finding the good things in men and respecting them for it? I'm with you on this one as long as it is equal submission and not just on your part.