Wednesday, July 20, 2011

What are your thoughts about guys who get pedicures with their girlfriends?

I want my boyfriend to go get a pedicure with me, but he won't. I don't know if it's because he thinks it's to feminine or what. It's not like I'm asking him to get bright red toes, just get them trimmed, massaged, and maybe a buff (nude, or clear top coat). So what do you think of guys who do it with their girlfriends? Does it take away from their masculinity?

Do you think my fantasy is healthy?

Next time you have that dream just falcon punch the ***** in the ****.........no ***** teases you EVAR.

What are the regulations for wearing Headphones in Civilian clothes on post.?

Ft. Lewis, i'm pretty sure that, it only applies to military uniforms, but i was stopped and ordered to take them out as i was walking around in my civilian attire, any information would be greatly appreciated.

Dreaming about being pregnant? Why?

I have dreamed about being several nights in a row. It's like the dream ends and the next night continues. The first dream was me having to tell my parents, the second one was me going into labor, and then last night I dreamed I had just got home from the hospital with the baby. I'm 15 and most definitely not pregnant! I'm a virgin. So why do I keep dreaming this?

How can I make friends?

Once you graduate join the Army as an officer you will go through hell but at least you will have friends to do it with.

I think my cat is about to give birth?

our cat is pacing, yowling, meowing, and hissing when you touch her hard, large stomach. we found her earlier, so we dont know how long shes been pregnant. shes currently in our garage with the lights off with a cardboard box with a towel, food and water. shes forsure in labor, but what do we exepect ? help please. we want to keep all the kittens and mother healthy. will she reject the kittens if we touch them with a towel ?

Girls, what type of guy do you go for?

My friends usually go for the big jock type but i prefer pretty boys, we argue about this all the time! I do like guys with a bit of muscle or at least a sleek build but i don’t like the big beefcake sort of guys, they do nothing for me! I also like an intellectual man, who i can have stimulating conversation with, not just someone who tries to prove his masculinity by drinking copious amounts of beer. What do you all think?

38 weeks pregnant with severe diarrea?

I've had about 4-5 bowel movements today and feeling pretty nauseated, no BHC or anything throughout my whole pregnancy, is this a sign of labor? Did anyone else experience this before labor and how long after did contractions start?

If a guy refuses to fart in front of his long term girlfriend, is that a sign that he lacks masculinity?

sure Vergogne, but you cant hold a fart forever. we're talking about a long term gf here, not a first date. it means the dude isnt comfortable enough to start ripping farts around her yet. which means he probably has a ways to go before he can muster up the courage to take a sh!t under the same roof as her. sack up and fart already. i farted a couple times typing all this bullshit.

It's been two months today that my dog mated and she lost her mucus plug..?

gestation for a dog is approx 63 days,if the plugs out she's probably in labor or will be shortly.Is she seeking out a nest?Acting un-usual?Good luck with your dog and her babes

Question: Is Justin Bieber a black supremacist?

Your troll energy is powerful, but ineffective as it accomplishes nothing. Oh, and he is the Antichrist, not a black supremacist.

Is the airforce for me?

I've always liked being in planes and around planes I like physical labor I'm only 18 and I can't take a test to save my life. I did a little less than average on the SAT and I wasn't sure if I could get into the airforce?

How long can a dog be in labor?

I have a dachshund, she is about four years old, and has never had puppies before that we know. We got her given to us, and lo and behold she was pregnant. I know nothing about dog labor, but she has been panting, and crying since about 9 PM, and it is now 8AM and still no puppies. I have not seen any actual pushing yet, but She is having contractions, her belly gets hard, then relaxes, so I figure these are contractions. How long can this last, and should I call the vet yet, she has not been pushing or anything yet?

Jury duty attire? Need help.?

I'm currently going to wear jeans and a nice polo shirt. I can't fit into any of my dress pants from a few years back. What do I do? Is wearing jeans inappropriate?

I wants to supply manpower in construction field?

i wants to supply manpower in construction related ......mason,plastering,carpenter, and general labour

Forgot the film title?

me and my sister watched a film about 9 years ago on channel 4 or 5 it was about a couple that got stranded in the snow, the woman was pregnant and went into labour on a blizzard, it is based on a true story they had sevear frost bite on there feet and became disabled please help me find the name of this film!!!!! the last scene the couple where in wheel chairs holding the baby i would really appreciate it if you could help me find it!!!!!

Why is masculinity not popular and even somewhat frowned upon in today's society?

Masculinity hasn't changed, it's just that times are less chauvinistic. it's misogynists and sexists that are frowned upon.

Gums growing over my teeth, any idea why this is?

Your Dentist is right. As a former UK Dental Nurse I have seen this many times. After birth everything returns to normal. After 7 years training your Dentist should know what he is talking about.

Tax credit for work attire...?

I work for a hotel and am required to wear a certain criteria of clothing, not items I would normally wear outside of work. Clothing such as pencil skirts, blouses and blazers. Very neat looking. How ever my employer does not supply a uniform or anything so I am left to buy these clothes myself. I have heard that you can get a tax credit for doing this but that it is not that simple and that the required work attire has to be along the lines of something like what a nurse or somebody would wear and that regular business attire does not qualify? Also my employer is not keen on reimbursing. My question is how do I go about claiming my work clothes , if possible, on my taxes and is there a cap on the amount that you can spend/claim?

Power steering fluid change?

every 50,000 miles from what i have seen. as long as he did what you asked him to and you agreed on the price, then you were not cheated.

Rebuilding trust with my husband?

My husband caught me in a lie and found out I had been flirting with a co-worker for about a few months. Nothing happened otherwise. But he basically considers me to have been cheating. I don't know if I agree. Anyway I was mad and put him down and said he wasn't attractive and made a few jokes about his masculinity. I know I did wrong and things aren't the same. He seems depressed and though he says everything is fine I don't believe it. Now how to regain trust? How to get him back to being the strong and motivated man he was before? I'm sorry but I'm also tired of him sitting in his man-cave and reading the paper.

I need to know if my husbands job is allowed to take away labor hours?

my husband works for a car care company. The manager recently told him that when he cant get a customer to agree to the work needed to fix there car, he will cut the labor time it calls for so that he can get the sale. So if the computer calls for 3 hours labor the manager is cutting it down to 1.5 hours labor. This wouldn't really be that big of deal except my husband gets paid more if he brakes base, but he cant brake base if the labor hours are cut. So i need to know if they are allowed to do this? My husband at one time used to manage that shop and was not being treated fairly so he ended up quiting and they recently called him and asked him to come back. I have in the past called wage and hour on them for shorting him on his check for a holiday. he was getting paid salary and the week for the holiday they changed his salary amount down 100. so he didn't get paid for it. They ended up having to pay it back to him, I really just need to know if this is legal and if not where can i call to complain? please any help

I like men but still feel a strong attraction to girls.. confused?

Wow this is an intriguing question, I think I understand where about's your coming from (Because iv'e had a similar dilemma) Im in my teens as well and im definitely straight but similarly to you iv'e had some confusion before and it was not exactly that I liked her I just felt an attraction to her but I actually had real feelings towards a guy - but then I found out that in teenage- young adult hood hormones tend to have that kind of effect on people (though most wont say because in the end most of us including me turn out straight) - in the end I did not have feelings to girls it just hormones and the ideology of doing the un-norm attracts people with high hormones ie teens etc. However some people do turn out to be gay etc but not most.

Best/proven ways that bring on labour?

I am 4O weeeks today so now considered full term, and I want my baby out!:( I can't bare to be pregnant any longer!? I haven't had any signs of labour! I don't even recall recognising BH contractions?! Has anyone else had this?! What has worked for all you girlies!! And at what stages did you have your Bubbas!? Help appreciated! Thankyou! + I will keep you all updated on my progress?!!!!:]xx

Have women wearing panties from centuries or this a recent change in their attire?

Women have always worn undergarments. Now if you're asking if the panties they wore looked a lot like what we wore today the answer is no. The underwear women wore back in the olden days was something either full bodied or they looked like pants. The sexy stuff girls wear nowadays didn't start until maybe the 1960s or 70s

How do I turn femininity to masculinity?

I'm a guy, fifteen, and it's the smallest things that make me look feminine. I don't like being feminine, and don't give all of this bullshit on how not being myself is this, and it's that, whatever. I just want to act like a guy would, but trust me, I am no tomgirl. I was when I was little because I hung out with girls, and I think that's why I act the way I do. Please help me change myself! Thanks so much in advance.

Does anyone know the average cost of reroofing?

on a 8 pitch comp roof and decking replaced as well in texas if that makes a difference? looking for the cost of labor and materials

Wedding Attire help?? Please?

Both the dress and shoes are perfect attire for a wedding. I do agree that a camisole under the dress is a good idea unless it is cut quite a bit higher. Enjoy the wedding.

Masculinity and femininities influences?

What are they i know the media plays a big part e.g. they portray the 'perfect man' what a man should look like what size they should be etc. but what else

How can I make a sim in captivity give birth?

I have a woman that is staying at my house and she's pregnant. She's in labor but she's not in my family and it won't let me take her to the hospital and she won't go to the hospital but she also won't give birth... Any cheats or ideas? Thanks!

What to give as a gift at a wedding?

I know we are giving them money my sister in law and her husband but I don't know how much to gift. Shes made comments about it costing around 50 a plate and that she thought the rule was u gift cost plus 50. Ive heard of covering you plate but not plus fifty. I'm also a little annoyed as at our wedding she gave us a 200 dollar wii (which was an awesome gift that we really appreciate) but based on her thinking her entire family cost us 450 (just the reception not even including there accomadations and attire we paid) to have at the wedding plus her 50 rule she should have given us 500 (which I would hope most ppl think is ourtragous cause i do). She didnt even invite our kids but thats not really an issue I just dont feel comfortable giving this women 150 bucks. Is 75- 100 acceptable?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

What would the advantages be of a single worldwide economy?

If the trades in the world are free,it is called the first best. It will be a win-win situation,and the world as a whole. The gain from trade will be maximized with efficiency.But if it cannot be done that far, a trading block will yield a second best.It is because of trade creation will be more than trade diversion as stated in the economic integration theory.The Doha round if it can be concluded will stimulate the free world trade,including agriculture. But bilateral agreements will also help.

DO YOU AGREE: women need men more than men need women?

im a 17 year old girl...and i just cant imagine how life can be without men......it would be so sad and lonely. the thing i would miss the most would be their S3XY masculinity. the way they act, stand, walk, talk, and do everything !! women: dont you agree that we need more than they need us?

Early labour or belly dropping?

I'm 39 weeks and I'm going through the same thing except I'm having cramps going across the middle of my belly. My doctor says its early labor. You need to go to the doc just to make sure. Also if it is early labor, this could last for weeks. Good luck

INDIA WILL BECOME THE LARGEST ECONOMY IN THE PLANET,YOUR SAY?

by 2030..... maybe 50% of the India population will be 1/2 white................ like the Bollywood movie stars

When should i plan to pack everything im going to need? 10 points :)!?

When should i plan to pack the hospital bag? I know its still pretty far away before my due date but i wanna be ready to go when im in labor. What do i need in the bag?

Why are the majority of gang rapes committed by black men?

I would say that its because most of the time it is black men that create and involve themselves with gangs. Once in a gang they are prone to do acts of violence. So if it was that mostly white men joined gangs then they would be the ones to rape and do violence. And black men may rape in gangs but alot of child molestors out there are whites or hispanics and they go solo. Im hispanic btw so im not being racist. Also rape can occur within a relationship so it doesnt mean that white men dont rape. White men do rape but more secretly.

Job interview attire for very petite women?

Even though I am in my mid 20s, I have a small body of an 15-year-old. In fact, I fit my 15-year-old niece's clothes nicely. So I have a very difficult time finding a blazer that looks professional and fits well. In fact, I've been trying for months. Even the blazers/suits in the petite sections of Ann Taylor, The Limited, JCrew and Banana look extremely big on me. They made me look like I'm a little kid wearing my father's blazer. So my question is: is it necessary to wear a suit to a professional job interview. What are some other options besides suits? Thanks.

What beer(s) have a reputation for being 'girly'?

When a guy drinks a "light" beer I don't think it is girlie at all. Most people drink light because it isn't as filling as regular beer. Drink what you like though, as why would drink alcohol if it's not what you like. BTW, I'm a girl and I love Guinness- I've never been told I'm masculine! And it's funny you mention Miller Lite, as that is all my husband drinks!

What are some things that are safe to trigger labor?

I am being induced next Thursday (7th) but would like to start labor naturally if possible. I am 1cm dialated and my doctor told me today that my cervix is thinning out really good. I have been bouncing on an exercise ball a lot and I think that is what has helped thin my cervix out a little bit. I just want some more suggestions as to how to get this labor started without having to be induced! Thanks in advance!

Can i self induce labor at 34 weeks?

I am 33 weeks pregnant and will be 34 weeks by 4th of July, i want my baby born on that day, i read that babies are fully develope and considered full term by 34 weeks, is it safe for me to self induce labor on that day?

Are black skinny jeans okay for business casual attire?

I have a job interview tonight with a marketing company and the receptionist told me to dress business casual. I was planning to wear a nice white blouse with a dark grey shirt underneath paired with black skinny jeans and black tie flats. I'm worried that the skinny jeans are too casual; however, I don't own any dress pants or skirts.

How do I know if I'm going into early labor?

I am 34 weeks pregnant, I have a ureteral stent and I've been having bad pain in my lower abdomen, Saturday it would come every 20 mins and last for about 10 mins, then got to where it was almost constant, but since then it hasn't been regular. I'm going to the doctor tomorrow, but I want to have a general idea since it's at least an hour drive to the hospital, and a four hour drive to the one I would prefer to deliver at. (After 36 weeks I'll be staying closer btw) Anyways, I'm so used to my kidney/bladder hurting I don't want to wait to long and not make it to the hospital because I missed the signs. People have told me contractions feel like the baby is balling up and your stomach gets hard, but that has been happening daily since 16 weeks or earlier, so that's nothing new. What do contractions feel like when you already have pain in the kidney area?? I've been having more watery discharge, but that's the only new thing besides this different pain. I know this is all jumbled so I'm sorry lol! Thanks for any advice.

Am I going into labour? Do I need to call my OB?

Ill start off by saying im 34 weeks. I woke up 2 hours ago with lower back pain and menstrual like cramping. I got up to walk around and it didnt help. It just hurt so bad I decided to tak a bath and still painful but started coming and going every few minutes with just slight cramping inbetweent he painful cramping. This has been going on for 2 hours straight now and its painful. Is this labor? Do i need to call my OB?

Help! I Need pregnancy advice!?

I'm 39 weeks pregnant and due any day, My baby is 8 pounds 8 oz already and the hospital have told me to come in everyday because the baby isn't moving as much. They're monitoring it but I'm not happy with the service and really want to have the baby, like, now. Is there any way to jump start labour or get the hospital to induce me. Please help. :)

My boss is trying to take money from me!!!! HELP!?

i was in a work related accident 1 year and two months ago, may 2010, i received workman's comp for the three months they would not let me return to work at the end of which i received my settlement. well, this morning my boss/ owner of the company pulls me into his office and tells me if i want to keep my job i have to pay the supposed $1800 dollar repair bill for the damages in the accident.... i have been told by several sources this is not a legal move on his part, and i should contact the department of labor. i have contacted them and have an appointment. what are your thoughts? thank you very much!

38 weeks pregnant, contractions 10 min apart but weak for 3 days now and no baby.?

I am currently 38 weeks pregnant, I`ve been having contractions but they aren`t painful just uncomfortable. Its been about 3 days since they started. I have a 2 year old son and when I went into labour with him my water broke and I had him the next morning. With this one they seem very regular but not strong at all and not getting stronger or closer. Is there anything I can do to speed this along? I havent slept in 3 days and am very uncomfortable. I would really like for them to pick up and my baby to be here. Any advice?

What is the proper attire for Niagara Falls/Other parts of Canada in June?

Hello, I'll be going to Canada mid-June, and I was wondering what would be the proper clothing to wear to Niagara Falls, other parts of Canada, and maybe New York? Keep in mind I do NOT want to look like a tourist:). Thank you soooo much.

2004 hyundai accent code p0734?

P0734 is a code for incorrect 4th gear ratio. When the trans controller senses a disagreement between the input/output shaft speed ratio it wants for the gear it has selected and what it's seeing it sets this. If this condition is detected three times the trans locks to 3rd gear limp home mode assuming there is a serious internal problem and 3rd gear is intentionally designed to be the running gear with minimal control functionality so you can get home with most failures present. When it's in limp home it will accelerate like a dog because it's starting in a high gear and will wind out at speed without upshifting to 4th. Basically you're driving a car with one gear. There is an overdrive switch in the system but it's the switch on the shifter to deselect overdrive (4th gear) when going up grades so the trans won't hunt gears too much. If that switch fails it will only prevent 4th gear if it shorts or won't block 4th gear if it's open. There is no overdrive sensor. There is a kick down switch but it's part of the trans. If one of the shaft speed sensors was acting up you'd have a different code for it in most cases. Almost all causes of shaft speed mismatch are an internal mechanical problem, probably a burnt clutch, or an internal electrical problem with the solenoid valves. It is very unlikely there is some cheap external quick fix for what it sounds like yours is doing. Sorry but I'd be back at the clown you bought it from pronto. It sounds like you have an internal hydraulic or clutch problem that is aggravated by temperature as the fluid and components heat up. The chance of this happening without their prior knowledge is next to zero under the conditions you've stated. Sorry but pretty much any of the incorrect ratio codes are bad news.

Masculinity and anger?

I'm not sure, but that's not an intelligent thing to do because guys like that tend to be abusive. Maybe because their father was like that and since he is seen as manly-any guy having the same anger traits would also be seen as fatherly, or masculine.

Baggy button up shirts for girls?

Just wondering where I could buy a couple, for a decent price. There is always guy clothing sections, but I have a pretty small frame, so I don't think any of them would fit. Just want to add a bit of masculinity to my outfit, I guess.

Are modern men insecure because of modern society?

Some Native Americans sent their men out alone into the wild for weeks to test their survival skills, the history of masculinity goes all the way back to our ape ancestors, so why do we live in a world that seems to avoid development of men's masculinity? The "Nice Guy" syndrome seems to be a national epidemic in "civilized" cultures - or is that just the way it seems, have there always been "Nice Guys"?

What are some nicknames guys call each other to sound tough?

Its for a research paper I have due tom on masculinity. I need words such as "chief" or "champ"

What is the conservative party's (torries) platform?

I am actually an American who is a conservative and I follow British politics and have taken comparative government classes so I know a bit about the British system with labour, the torries, and recently the lib. Dems. But where do the torries stand in England on issues like abortion, gun rights, government spending, healthcare, national defense, etc?

Help! How can I change from being a really 'nice guy' into a 'bad boy'?

I know you said don't said "be yourself" But please! Listen, if you do change into a bad boy you will get all of the wrong girls. You will not be comfortable being with someone who doesn't even know who you are really like. I always go after the nice guys. I just don't think you are getting noticed. Do something so you can get noticed but please do not change. I hate bad boys. I wish they would all just get a life.

Any one an employer who is in charge of hiring?

Does anyone know about this interview mistake. I arrived at an interview about 5 minutes before the schedueled time. I did not realized the entire time I forgot my sunglasses on top of my head. She did not give me a tour of the place because I was familar with the place from doing clinicals there. She shook my hand at the end of the interview and asked if I needed directions on how to get back to the entrance, I said yes and then I found the elevator and I told her that I think I can get there from hear. She said ok, and explained how to get there and I left. When I got in the car and looked in the mirror I realzed that my sunglasses were on top of my head the whole time and also my earing fell out so I had only one side in. I think that my professional attire was ruined because of these mistakes. I wasn't meant to get the job I guess. :( Hopefully something will turn up sometime.

Are Americans too soft and accustomed to comfort?

I am an American, and probably too privileged also. But are the people as a whole too soft? We have had 40 years of legalized abortion, and fifty years of expecting everything to be paid for once we turn 65. Now there are millions of illegal immigrants in the country to do the manual labor, and the country is going bankrupt. Is it our own fault? Why or why not?

I am 35 weeks pregnant. When did you start taking raspberry leaf tea? Did it work ?

im 35 weeks with my second and had 2 cups of it so far, the taste is vile and put me off drinking any more to be honest. sugar helps but its still not nice for me personally. my midwife said its safe to take from 34 weeks as it can take around a month to start working, it doesnt induce labour at all it just helps strengthen your womb to make contractions stronger/more efficient thought to shorten the second stage of labour. i dont know if it works as i never had any with my first, but anything is worth a try. you can buy them in tablet form too if you dislike the taste.

What does formal attire mean ?

I'm going to a wedding today and it says formal attire so does it mean to wear those short dresses or those fancy long dresses??

I want to start my own car hop...any ideas?

I would like to start a modern day car hop, but I want it to have a setting/decor of the 1930's-50's. I need ideas for attire, decor, menu options, hours, and anything else you know! Also, a little history on car hops would be helpful, since all I can find on the Internet is Halloween costumes. I know a little on the subject, but any extra information would be helpful. Thanks!

Assassins Creed Ruined?

I also love the AC series and the storyline. I kind of liked Brotherhood but wasn't my favorite game of the series. When I first played the multiplayer, it was awesome. But after awhile, I didn't like it. Got to repetitive and boring. I didn't really like the story of brotherhood so I am hoping the AC: Revelation will have a better story. I don't really like Ezio; I like Altair more and happy to see him come back in this next game.

NO ANSWERS RE-POST: When you got your membrane sweep, like this TMI?

Not sure about the blood. I have mine swept 4 days before my daughter was born. I don't remember feeling any different, or bleeding much. My contractions started 3 days later. Watch those contractions, though...that's pretty close together. So monitor them closely and make sure they aren't regular or you might want to go in! Good luck!!!

Ladies: Is a prominent brow bone unattractive?

I'm 20 years old and i noticed it starting to stick out when i was like 14 and since then its graudually gotten bigger, thicker and more defined, is this strange... i think it makes my face look to harsh and i look angry all the time. isn't this supposed to be a sign of masculinity/testosterone?

Monday, July 18, 2011

Men & Women with age?

I hear men age great or even look better at older ages while women look worse which i think is a load of $hit. I think men look their best in their 20s and 30s while women in their 30 and 40s. If they take good care of themselves they will always look good i mean look at Betty White shes 89 and still great. And also this maturity thing is bs women DONT mature faster if anything they mature slower and just become pretentious about it. Also i dont think women live longer also i think BIOLOGICALLY men do but because of lifestyles and what masculinity entails men have hortened theirs while women have not. ack to maturity women mature faster PHYSICALLY as in they hit puberty first but MENTALLY men mature faster. I also believe the woman should be older than the man in a relationship because of effectiveness in them like the "Cougar" relationships last much longer than their older man younger woman counterpart which infat are the worst kind of relationship which have the lowest success rates compared to same age and older woman younger man. I did this to correct some misconceptions

Bulging hand vein.. Please answer?

My left hand has this one vein tht will bulge more than all the others. It looks worse than my right hand veins! And its not even the whole vein it kinda bulges more in the middle then thins out almost like theres a lump from appearance but there is not bc it is soft.... This all started after the nurse tried to get an IV in tht vein when i was in labor.... Ever since ive noticed this vein get lots bigger than usual... It use to ache too but i havent had tht lately... Just the extreme bulge when im hot or hold my arms down which i know is normal but is the vein being like tis normal or could the IV have caused the damage?? I'm only 19 and i've never been overweight or had any health problems other than anxiety! Advice please?

I work in a hospital and will be continuing to work until labor sets in....I am worried however, about my?

water breaking somewhere public (like work). Any suggestions? I know a pad might help but I also want to be aware of it breaking because baby must be delivered within 18-24hrs of this happening to prevent infection.

Can someone help me please?!?

I sympathize! But know one can tell you what you are..you have to answer that for yourself..but in my opinion..you sound pretty gay (and don't take that as an insult, I'm gay..and proud of it! And, a little piece of advice..try avoiding being bi..cause most people just think you can't make up your mind, and it does make you sound a bit insecure about who you are..) But, as I said..it's for you too decide!

Am i going into labor?

im 34 wks and 5 days pregnant and ive been having mild stomach cramps that feel a little worse than period cramps but still hurt. the baby has dropped and feels like shes pushing down pretty hard! and ive also been really sick to my stomach for the past week but i dont know if i should call the doctor or just wait until my doctors appt. What should i do?

I am a young aspiring author in the Young Adult genre. Could you please rate this short story I wrote /10..?

dont take this the wrong way but instead of discribing what she is doing make it that she is thinking it write about hyer thoughts, not whats happening.

What can I do to avoid going into active labor?

There's really nothing you can do. As soon as your body says lets go your brain will start making oxytocin and you will go into labor. Just try to relax.

How can I convice my boyfriend to not give me an engagment ring?

I simply don't want one. I like the look of a single wedding band with some diamonds in it. But he feels this is an insult to his masculinity. Like he has to brand me or something, in order to be planning a wedding. What gives? Guys don't have to wear rings till the wedding. Anyone else feel this way? Nothing against ladies who love their rocks. To each their own.

Are the labour and delivery nurses going to think I'm a tub of lard?

We don't care what you look like - we know that stretch marks are genetic and you have no control over them!

Can anything make you dilate or efface?

I'm not asking about inducing labor. Just asking if there is something to help you dilate or efface. I've heard walking and squats help when you have allready started dilating. Is that true? Did walking help any of you? I went from .5cm to 1cm to 1.5cm in 3 weeks and I am 60 % effaced.I really don't want to go past my due date. I have horrible back pain and a bruised rib and other reasons why I wouldn't mind having the baby a week or 2 earlier. I am almost 37 weeks. The doctor told me that it's safe for me to have the baby any time now. And she recommended walking. I know some people will say that the baby will come when it's ready and everything, but I just wanna know what peope have done from experience and if anything helped. Any benefits from doing certain things in the last weeks?

I want to learn about American football. Proper attire?

Would I have to wear a bra under my shoulder pads.I am really small in that area and you can hardly tell that I am a girl.

THE PRETTY BOY SYNDROME?

Cause people want to look good and not disgusting. I think you should find yourself and ugly smelly hairy old man.

Job interview for being a waitress/ busboy at a bar. need answers? what about attire?

Look into the place you want to work and see what the employees there are wearing, and try to match the look/style. Don't wear shorts if they are all in long pants or skirts, for example. Don't wear flip flops if they are all in sneakers. You want to look the part already when they interview you. Typical questions might include your experience, your schedule - availability, how you deal with customers, your interests, etc.

An old gay guy--I'm talking seventy plus--will not leave me alone?

I thought you were on the level until the thing about the pink dress. You're not talking about the typical gay person, you're describing a total lunatic

Haraam for man to wear earrings?

Yes it is haraam; Islamic tradition does not allow cross-dressing. A man should only dress in male clothes. Men who cross-dress as women or are deemed to be too effeminate will also face harassment or criminal charges.

A question about "beauty", is it a flaw in God's creation?

St. Augustine said beauty is a gift from God. Beauty is simply a gift. Beauty is fleeting. It really should not be important, but unfortunately it is. A lot of the features that we as humans find attractive are indicators of good health and youth.

How could I improve my Macbeth: Tyrant or Tragic Hero essay?

youre an amazing writer..the structure is perfect ! thats too weird because i just came home from my final english exam and we had to write an essay on the topic "macbeth is a beast" hahaha. my teacher always tells us that "less is more" and so the fewer words we can write to get the point across, the better. he would rather us write a 5 paragraph essay (1st, intro. 2nd,3rd and 4th are examples and details. 5th conclusion) but if your teacher doesnt expect that then keep doing what youre doing ! i enjoyed reading it a lot :)

Do the Tories actually care about the education of British children?

Well if you want teachers to be paid more, then you will have to pay more. These "teachers" should go to private schools if they are only interested in chasing the yanky dolla.

What is a man of character?

What makes a real man? Not like body parts or masculinity. Like, personality or action wise what makes a man "THE MAN"?

What are some early labor signs?

Okay so im 37 weeks pregnant and lately i have been gettin very little sleep, waking up at least twice a night to use the restroom and then not being able to fall back asleep, i have been very achey, and i use the bathroom to clear my bowels pretty frequently. I dont think im nesting but then again my mom says that I am. My feet have been getting more swollen these past few days, and yesterday i woke up very dizzy and continued to have dizzy spells throughout the day with some nausea. Could these be signs that I could go into labor soon?

A movie about a guy who has to raise his daughter after his wife dies in labor?

What's the name of the movie? His wife dies in labor and he has to loses his entertainment job to take care of her. He meets a girl who works in a video store and they start dating. He is raising his daughter with the help of his wife's father. They always hang out at a bar.

Okay to throw someone off a plane because he wouldn't pull his pants up?

Yes it is ok. The pilot is the captain of his ship (plane). He and his crew can make decisions on how they are treated, how people dress, and whether anyone's attitude warrants being allowed to remain on the flight.....all for the safety of the other passengers.

How does working all the time affect ones attitude and mentality?

Manual labour is more healthier than mental labour for the reason, manual labour keeps the body healthy and therefore the mind becomes automatically healthy. Mental labour makes the body sedentary in habits and therefore unhealthy and in unhealthy body resides an unhealthy and unhappy mind. Secondly, in all manual labour there is an element of mental labour whereas in mental labour there need not be any element of manual labour. A harmonious equilibrium or balance between the two is ideal body, mind and spirit..

Interview attire for a manufacturing shop environment job?

I have an interview with a company that manufactures aerospace parts. The job is in the shop environment and would require me to wear boots and shop clothes. What should I wear for the interview? Is business casual ok?

I need to wear gray pants to work, do sharkskin pants qualify?

I've been instructed to wear gray pants as part of my attire and I'm trying to figure out whether or not to go out and buy a pair of gray dickies pants or just wear the sharkskin I have in my closet. They're not solid gray.

Why aren't men as sexualized as women in pop music?

Because sex sells and the female body is portrayed as more sexualized/ objectified in our society...

Can having sex at 34 weeks induce labor?

I'm 34 weeks pregnant and I'd like to know if sex can induce my labor .. My doctor says I shouldn't but I still want to know if sex can or can't induce my labor ..

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Name one thing feminine and masculine about you?

For femininity my body obviously, it's that slender and sexy. For masculinity, my personality. It's very clashing when you think about it.

Have you noticed the defeatist mentality of male feminists?

I'm fairly certain that a number of them think it's gonna get them brownie points with women who will sleep with them. The one and only man I've ever met who actually identifies as a male feminist came right out and said that any time there was some sort of feminist march or demonstration on his college campus, all he needed to do was grab one of their picket signs, chant their chants and he'd be guaranteed some sex that night.

FanFiction story Inuyasha Help?

you mean to say that you're writing that tripe? You have a major flaw - Kagome appeared much later in the InuYasha timeline.

Men's attire for acquaintance party at school?

i want to know which attire is appropriate for our acquaintance party at school . only freshmen and sophomore colleges will attend it .

38 weeks pregnant and VERY bad pain in lower back that doesn't go away. ?

My wife is 38 weeks pregnant and is saying she is having lower back pain. It is a constant pain and isn't going away. It's been waking her up all night. She had contractions the other day and we went to the hospital and ended up getting sent home because the contractions weren't bad enough then. Now she is having these back pains that do not include any pain in her stomach at the moment. Is this back labor or is the baby on her spine or something?

Explain the importance of Free Labor and how this set the North and South at odds?

Free labour helped build America, even though it was very wrong. It helped by providing labour free of charge for Plantation owners, they became richer and richer. Now the North didn't like this because they knew that slavery was wrong, and instead decided to force the south to stop forcing people to work for free. The south saw this as a threat to their profits and were upset.

What is the proper volleyball attire?

You are supposed to wear spandex shorts, a comfortable tshirt, tennis shoes/volleyball shoes, knee pads, I do not know what age you are but sometimes ankle braces but those are not required. Just a small bag will do to fit a volleyball and anything else you might need. Just a recommendation put your hair up so you do not get to hot while playing.

Woman feminist and equal rights?

You fight for the same right as men but yet people think it's already fair now. Females get more perks then guys already. You get ladies night at bars. Some are house wives, your lawyers and doctors. I never even seem a man call rape on a female. I don't see most feminist complain about doing manual labor. Just the white collar jobs. Hey most guys pay for your hair, your nails, and your shopping sprees. When it comes to kids you want to protect them from everything that is violent but that's never possible. Females have better chances of getting a job just because she's a woman or is knocked up. Trust me I been through that. Feminist fighting for equal rights is like hitler being reborn it's never going to happen.

Does it make me unmanly or less of a male not love watching sports.?

People always associate sport with masculinity. For me i can some of any sporting event before i get bored,football and basketball included.I'll rather watch movies instead of sports. Although i don't mind mma and WWE wrestling.And i also don't mind actually playing outside sports outside with my friends for fun.Not for schools or clubs.

What do you think of my writing and how can I improve?

more depth. put some voice and when you were describing the palace it wouldve been awesome if you put some more imagery.

Is 3000 for labor too much for a bath with no tub? Just tile on the floor and shower area 13 long by 6 wide?

The bath is 13 feet long with all the plumbing already there and all that is needed is the tile for the floor and shower area. I will be buying all the materials.

Here is a list of Federal Government Programs - When a state has a duplicate program can we eliminate the Fed?

Never happen. Libs would NEVER vote their special areas out of existance. But I like your thinking.

Arent COWBOYS sooo hott ?

Haha.. as a small town girl, a nice cowboy riding around would be nice. :) their bodies are the sex from god. and wow. yep. hes a beauty! But i have a boyfriend, haha so i gotta becareful what i say.! My man well id like to call him a country boy. but he dont dress like it.. he loves his country, just like i do! :)

Can i get an apartment with no job?

I was planning on putting 6 months of rent down and immediately look for a job once i buy some interview attire. I can not wait to get hired I need to leave asap! I live in Atlanta. Most places have 6 month leases and 12 so I cant see why they wouldn't rent to someone who signed a 6 month lease and paid ALL of it upfront. What is YOUR experience, thanks?

My mother keeps saying I should date guys because I'm attracted to butch/masculine women?

Explain to her that it you aren't into men, you're into women. Tell her what it is you like about Masculine women, and what you don't like about men. Explain what you perceive as the differences between them that make you more attracted to females. In short, how can you tell he it's totally different? Tell her HOW its totally different! X3 Just explain how "Butch" women make you feel compared to men and vice versa, that should get your point across pretty easily. Hope I helped somehow :)

Ways to raise quick money for a car?

Im 15 and can get my permit soon so I will have to buy a car. I want to buy it with my hard earned money not my mom's. I want to get a Toyota Supra. I will buy it most likely off craigslist due to costs. But I need ways to get to around 7,000. I have 800 saved so far. I know 7000 is alot but I'm willing to do what i have to do to get it. Most places around my area wont hire until 16. :/ I was thinking of maybe putting an ad on craigslist saying "Willing to do any labor jobs such as yard work, and moving heavy objects for cash". Do you think this will work?

How did Jesus get socally excepted even tho he was not married?

It doesn't state in the New Testament one way or the other if Jesus was married since the New Testament only talks about his PUBLIC life and PUBLIC works, it says nothing about his private life, but what do you expect from a book which was compiled by MEN in the first place! Most things in there are anti-family, and anti-woman.

I'm so confused, is this early labor?

hunny just go to the hospital to get checked. its better to be safe than sorry.. good luck.. it sounds like labor but I would definitely not wait and just go. that's why we pay for shitty insurance. lol

Why do women get epidurals if labor is excruciating with or without it?

You can become paralyzed if they mess up, and my friend just told me it even slows down labor! Everyone I know that's given birth and had an epidural says giving birth is unimaginably horrifyingly painful and getting the epidural is even more painful. So why get the shot if it doesn't make labor any less painful and the shot itself is even worse??? Are there any other methods of numbing the pain? I can't imagine giving birth without an epidural but I'm actually considering skipping it after all I've heard!

Do you believe that once the economy goes back to normal, we shall hear about inequality between the males an?

females? Im old enough to remember the days when women were suppose to be equal and the US govt pushed young boys like me to think more like women and be afraid of my masculinity...........do you believe, once that things go back to the norm, more women would be complaining? From what I see today, more women are giving up their careers to have families because money is tight? Whadda u think?

Is your identity as male or female or masculine or feminine an important aspect of who you are?

Well, I don't know. I love being a woman and I suppose that I can base what I do around that but I don't separate myself in the sense that 'no it's a woman' job to do this or a man's job to do that' sort of thing. Kinda don't really know that answer to this lol...

Where to get quality summer dress attire?

I'm 15 a girl and I'm going on a trip that requires business attire. The dress code says I can have dress, suit/skirt with a blazer and dress blouse and dress shoes for professional after. For business attire I can have khakis slacks or dress capris kneelength skirts blouses polls or a dress. And shoes with a heel. And then I need casual attire too. All clothes have to bee finger length and notops that are strapless or the sleeves aren't 4 finger lengths. So basically no fun. I would LOVE it if you could give me things to get along with places. Thank you in advance for helpful answers.

I need help with my cat please?

I think my cats in the early stages of labour, she is restless and sounds like she is in distress! Can anyone help me and give me any advice to as if she is in labour! Thankyou

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Why did she insult my attire?

Once when we all went to a neighborhood pool with my in laws (their area) I wore a bikini at my husband's request. My stomach isn't extremely fat, but its not a 6 pack either. I have very large hips for someone barely 100 lbs and very petite. My MIL is also petite and the same size, but has large*you know what's*. When I wore the bikini she said "well, I on the other hand know that I have to wear a mom bikini when I am in public and as a mom I have to cover myself up. I dont have the thin figure that you do". She isn't fat, she is really the same size as I am. I have a child. But I was offended that she said this. She also has to always be saying how young I look and if I looked any younger than I would look like a child. whats her deal?

What should i wear to a wedding?

it does not say the attire on the invitation. it's in june at a banquet hall. it's also in the evening. i'm 15 and unsure of what to wear. any suggestions? i'm comfortable with any style of dress.

What to dress to look slimmer?

I find myself a little bit fat, but my boyfriend likes me like this, do not want me to lose weight. I love him, and want to do a lot of effort in my attire. Give me some advice!

Attire for vans warped tour?

I'm 19 and it's my first time going. I know it's going to be hot so obviously don't wear pants. My friend has gone several times and said girls usually wear shorts, a tank, and a bathing suit top underneath, with lace up sneakers. Is this common to wear?

I'm wondering if this is normal?

I had unprotected sex at the beginning of June, during or a day after ovulation. I'm usually on a 28 to 29 day cycle so when I was scheduled to start on June 21, nothing happened. On occasion, my period has been a couple of days late but I never worried about it before. Anyway, a week passed and aside from the cramps I'm used to having at my time of the month, there were no signs of my period coming. I took a pregnancy test and it came out negative although one line was faint. I wasn't sure if that was a false negative, so I took another test of a different brand and that also came out negative. This morning I woke up and had very intense menstrual-like cramps except that they were about ten times worse. The only time I had ever experienced pain like that was when I was in labour with my daughter. I ended up bleeding but it was brown and spotty, not at all like my periods normally are. Is there a possibility that the pregnancy tests were wrong? Or if I am not pregnant, what are some reasons as to why my period was so late? Please note that I am not under any stress whatsoever so I would not count that as a contributing factor. If anyone can shed some light, it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Windows 7 Enterprise "Password Reset"?

I've a labor computer from my college that has Windows 7 Enterprise, and it demands the admin password for pretty much everything. My college wont give it to me for god knows what explanation. so i need some seriouse benefit to change this password to my unique. I'd appreciate seriouse answers, no bs solutions to get factors please. Ty

What does this dream mean? I had too tell my aunt something.?

Is your cousin pregnant, by any chance? Is your cousin considering an abortion? If so, you need to tell your aunt.

What are some non customer based PT min wage jobs?

Try house Sitting for people going out of town Or vacationing. Try dog walking or paper delivery. Someything along those lines :)

Why is masculinity not popular and even somewhat frowned upon in today's society?

Masculinity hasn't changed, it's just that times are less chauvinistic. it's misogynists and sexists that are frowned upon.

Was Thomas Jefferson right?

The guy was a genius. We need to get back to being the America he helped create instead of a liberal cess pool.

I scratched my ding a ling a lot when I was little. Help!?

I was always fine with my ding a ling size, shape, and stuff. What's really bugging me are the scratch marks. I was in 6th grade and I had no idea what my little guy did. I thought it was like an armpit or something. If I scratched my armpit nothing would happen, so I figured that if I scratched my tower nothing would happen ethir. The thing itched a bit at first, then later on it started itch even more. This led up to me slashing away furiously at my snake. It was actually sort of paper cut all over. From that day forth I vowed never to touch the thing again. Now four years later, I've noticed that the sensitive spot has healed, but they're is one thing wrong. You know how people sometimes cut themselves and suddenly stop cutting themselves and they get this mark on their arm after it heals. I have like four on my john. So my question how will this affect my sex life in future. I don't want to be disgusting. Will women ever notice this. I wish I knew what my ding a ling did when I was little. Therefore can anyone tell me how bad this is from a scale one to ten and their opinion on it. Also in case you're clueless and didn't figure out what I was talking about. I was talking about my penis. I should I have said that sooner, but you get the idea. Please respond, this is really decimating my masculinity.

Why do some people think feminism demonizes masculinity?

Is this just more anti-feminist propaganda? Or can you give me any real, credible, sources that show that feminism does this?

Could someone please explain how my wife's mind works?

I was a good husband for a lot of years. Over the last year or so my wife basically got bored with me, culminating in a series of almost-mistakes with younger men. I confronted her about everything and she broke down and said she was unhappy and I no longer excited her. She questioned my masculinity in not so many words. I pointed out that I was a good husband, took her out frequently, did a lot of housework and other chores for her without her asking, helped her with her wardrobe and a lot of other things that I thought made me a "good man." I had always done these things since we were in our teens. She couldn't explain any of it but said she felt how she felt. Well I quit a lot of that, gradually over time, and now basically pattern myself as a husband in that "King of Queens" style that involves laziness and a lack of real responsibility. I thought I was doing something outrageous but it seems to have worked and more than that some female friends/coworkers think it makes sense (though one disagrees and has stuck to the line that I should have kept being a good husband even if my wife was unhappy with it, which makes no sense to me). She's happier than ever and rewards me in the bedroom, though I think she remains unaware of how I changed. It's been 7 months since I made the change. Can someone please help me get this?

Im 32 weeks and went to my dr apt yesterday and they said im now dialated to a 2...?

and im still 60% effaced, i wonder what the likely hood of me going into labor is... the dr has me coming back in tomorrow for a recheck,, what do u think they will do if i've dialated more?

Any Gay, Lesbian, or Straight people ever thought they were bi, but later, learned they were not?

i always thought i was straight. i had a friend that i was always very protective of. i thought it was fine to care so strongly about her but the last time she slept over we got drunk and made out. sparks flew everywhere and i never had that experience with a girl until then. i am madly in love with her. i just cant see myself with a guy.

I like men but still feel a strong attraction to girls.. confused?

I think you better go for bi that's the best thing to do. Men will love you more & you can get more attention for men if you also like women. Go for it sweetie!

Went and saw my doctor he said early labor?

Been having contractions all night long in my back for the most part. Baby is sunny side up and after talking to the doctor I'm going to try and not have a c-section if at all possible. He said labor can be long and difficult. Sat I was at 2 centimeters dilated and 0% effaced. Today when he checked me I'm now at 3 centimeters 30% effaced. I tried my hardest to take a short nap I was so tired. When I woke up I thought awesome! The contractions are gone wrong! Now they are getting stronger. Doctor said to walk and keep walking. I'm going to do the walking some more but any ideas what else I can do to help? I don't want to go to the hospital until I have too. Thanks

Tattooed bridesmaid beauties?

i am not really into to tattoos not one that are big and everywhere i don't have any at the moment but wanting on on my feet but my bridesmaids two of them anyways have gotten several tats and piercing since i told them of my wedding and i think they will take away from it being so elegant, so some of them can be cover and some of them cant when i ask them to be in the wedding (last year) and told them i didn't want a bunch of tats everywhere they agree ed, and now they are still getting very visable ones, there is a ttattooscover up kit at davids bridal but i am paying for all theier attire i feel if they wish to be in the wedding they should by the kit on there on what do you think about it

What to wear to the club?

I'm going to a bar for a friends birthday and the theme is beach attire. We have to wear beach/summer attire unless we want to get charged a $20 cover charge for not wearing summer/beach attire. Girls must wear bikini tops/summer dresses or other summer attire. I personally don't feel like wearing a bikini all night. Do any girls on here have any outfit ideas on what I can wear. Pictures/links are welcome :) Thanks!

Does anyone know how male masculinity has changed over time in australia?

Doing this as part of my essay for english, so does anyone know how it has changed from say 1900-2011? what were the typical male stereotypes back then and now?

Is there anyway i can start contracting on my own?

Hi my dr wants to induce my labor this week. I really want to start having contractions on my own without the dr giving me any kind of meds. Is there anything that can help me start on my own?? please help

36weeks 2days could i be in labor!!?

Hi!!! 36weeks 4cm with lots of back and plvic pressue what should I do I just had appinment today now really confuszed and worry wasn't really told much should I wait tell my water brakes to go L&D or go get seen again today!!! Ugh in pain

What is the proper volleyball attire?

You are supposed to wear spandex shorts, a comfortable tshirt, tennis shoes/volleyball shoes, knee pads, I do not know what age you are but sometimes ankle braces but those are not required. Just a small bag will do to fit a volleyball and anything else you might need. Just a recommendation put your hair up so you do not get to hot while playing.

In your experience mums did you have? (tmi sorry)?

it happened to me about 2 weeks beforei went into labour i was constantly on the toilet its just your bodys way of clearing out ready for labour, it doesnt hve to be diarrhoea but its common either way just make sure you drink lots of water to stop getting dehydrated if it is.

Has my labor already begun (i hope)?

ok so heres the the thing, i am due july 7th. and at my last apt. (last week) i was dialated to a 2, and i yesterday had diarhea (i know TMI) and also had what i thought might have been the real contractions but it turns out it was just false labor. and i have been nesting alot and have alot of pelvic pressure. so do you think that my labor has begun or will begin like very very soon. ps, i have already lost my plug awhile back as well, thanks

Attracted to someone 6 years younger than me. Help.?

I have never really had many sexual thoughts about men. I am now 21 and I still am not attracted to manly men. When I was young I was abused sexually by my uncle and by other sources. I have such an aversion to beards and masculinity. Its hard for me to find guys my age i like. My only two relationships were with guys my age that looked at least 16. now i have become very chemically attracted to my friend's younger brother. I never act on it. He grabs me, and does things to me and I react like i think its not appropriate, but inside i kind of like it and it bothers me. He is about 6' tall and 150 pounds. He has obviously went through puberty and looks about 16. But he flirts with me and pays attention to me. I cannot understand why I am attracted to him. And him touching me all the time inappropriately doesnt help my case. Im not a sicko, and i would never be attracted to a prepubescent child. I think maybe I have ephebophilic tendencies. not to be confused with pedophilic, which is not what I am. Why is this happening? Why am I attracted to him despite his age?

Why do men find chelsea clinton attractive?

hi recently i had a conversation with a friend mine ( who is straight), and conversation shift to the type of girls he likes, and he mentioned that he could never find girls like chelsea clinton attractive. At the time i said to him while i could not say that chelsea is the most attractive girl i have seen, in the past i have found myself become really attracted to guys on personality alone, even if they are not all that good looking. At this point , my friend just said to me ( according to him) that gay guys, like women, are mainly attracted to the quality of masculinity, which does not have to incl good looks, which is also why it is more likely ( according to him again), for women to fell for older guys who's 200 pounds overweight, where as for straight guys ( according to him yet again), who are visual, hence good looks are far more important. What do guys think?

Friday, July 15, 2011

How do people dress in NYC during the summer?

Specifically describing attire for day and night. Also, do you know what the dress code is for viewing Broadway shows?

Sister wants to give me legal guardinship of her 5year old son?

my husband is active duty military and we are stationed in okinawa japan. my younger sister is going through some tough times right now and is willing to sign over legal guardianship of her 5year old son to my husband and i. the biological father also agrees and is willing to let him come live with us but base legal is giving us the run around. how do i get this taken care of as quickly as possible so that i can have him back here in okinawa so he has time to adjust before he starts school starts after labor day. can she just sign a child guardian consent form with a notary or do we have to go through the courts. it's only for about two years to give her time to get herself back into a job and get herself straightened out

What's up with excessive feminization of cats in the media (very niche and unusual question)?

Cultural thing... In my country, cats aren't associated with women. It's more associated with intellectual people. I know more men than women with cats :)

First baby delivered by c-section, chances of a second being a natural birth?

If ur first was a c section because of ur vaginal canal was to small or something u are less likely to be able to have a vbac

Pregnant guinea pig - milk has just come through a little - how long till labour?

First time ive owned a pregnant guinea pig (adopted her pregnant) and her belly is huge and the babies move heaps! today her nipples looked red and when you touched them a bit of milk came out. has anyone experienced this? Do you know how long till she will go into labour?

Did world war 1 change masculinity in Britain? If so how?

All the Tough guys went to war and got shot to sh1t letting all the cissies procreate with the war brides and thereby making a more cowardly gene pool.

Do you let your little kiddos dress however they want to to school?

my 5 yr old is starting kindy next month. uniforms are not mandatory. she picks our her own clothes daily and lets just say her daily attire consists of some sort of skirt, colorful tights, rain boots/chucks, colorful top and a whole bunch of accessories....pretty much very funky/colorful. should i make her tone it down a bit for school?

Why do fat females like Tall slim clean cut guys?

And I'm talking about the tall slim males who are clean cut dudes with style and masculinity not the nerdy kind. This question isn't meant to sound rude or anything like that but I've notice this many times over the years in my expirence and in the expirence of a few other guys that I know. I know it's like that with many fat males too, but it's def. more common with females especially from what I've came across. What is thier mindset? Most of the time I like to be left alone by people in general so it's annoying when it happens.

What specific characteristics do you consider to show strong & attractive masculinity?

Confidence is the main thing definitely. A confident man doesn't need to "act like a man" and he doesn't need a woman who "acts like a woman should" in order for him to feel more like a man. To me thats the main thing, just be you and happy, and that works for men and women just the same. Have the confidence to be yourself and as a man it will appeal to women, and same for vice versa.

I am so much worried ?? masturbation..plz help!!!?

Yes it's true. Masturbation WILL ruin your life. It is the act of satan. Satan wants you to masturbate, as masturbation is a sinful and immoral. And when you masturbate this means you are obeying Satan. So you are betraying the Lord and worshipping Satan. It's all the bible, "Thou shalt not masturbate".

Contractions, pressure, early labor?

It's pretty normal. I actually started to dilate at 34 weeks. The doctors didn't see any problem. My daughter was born on her due date. The pains are very normal in the last couple of months. Because of the pressure on your rectum your going to have a lot of bowel movements. The contractions could be baton hicks. But trust me you'll know when you're in true labor

What makes you LGB or S?

I'm bisexual, and I like guys bodies cause of the masculinity - i.e. muscles, body hair. I like girls bodies cause of their curves, how smooth, and soft they are. How bout you?

What is the purpose of school and does it accomplish its purpose?

The problem is that people in this country don't want to learn. If they did indoctrination wouldn't work because they would do independent reading and learn that there is always more to a subject than could be gone over in school.

Are platform heels 'appropriate' for work/business attire?

Yes they are although at your age they would look a bit tarty and 'try hard'. Businesswomen would wear heels like that though, they're 'powerful'.

LADlES: men with EXTRA testosterone are HOTT ?

i have noticed men that have more masculinity in them are more s3xy. for example: i will find a man with deep voice more attractive than a guy with girly voice. and a MUSCULAR guy is WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY s3xier than a wimpy skinny guy. what do you think? arent s3xy guys with more testosterone more attractive?

Was this guy really sure of his masculinity? (opinion)?

A young guy and girl got on my bus and sat across the aisle from me. They both took an entire seat and put their feet up. I noticed the guy was wearing nail polish on his toes. One foot pale pink nail polish, the other foot bright red. He looked like he played college sports so I just assumed he did this as a favor for his girlfriend. What do you think?

How can I convice my boyfriend to not give me an engagment ring?

I simply don't want one. I like the look of a single wedding band with some diamonds in it. But he feels this is an insult to his masculinity. Like he has to brand me or something, in order to be planning a wedding. What gives? Guys don't have to wear rings till the wedding. Anyone else feel this way? Nothing against ladies who love their rocks. To each their own.

What to do to help bring on labor?

I'm currently 37 weeks 2 days pregnant. I started dilated at 31w 1d and was put into the hospital at 31w 4d because they couldn't get my labor to stop. I'm having a little boy and he had steroid while I was in the hospital. I'm currently measuring 10 weeks ahead. I'm extremely low and miserable. When I was checked last night I was dilated to 4 and 70% effaced. Help please!!

Why do women get epidurals if labor is excruciating with or without it?

You can become paralyzed if they mess up, and my friend just told me it even slows down labor! Everyone I know that's given birth and had an epidural says giving birth is unimaginably horrifyingly painful and getting the epidural is even more painful. So why get the shot if it doesn't make labor any less painful and the shot itself is even worse??? Are there any other methods of numbing the pain? I can't imagine giving birth without an epidural but I'm actually considering skipping it after all I've heard!

My mental stability is absolutely deteriorating. What can I do?

I used to get bullied for being fat/gay but then i droped the weighto live in a small town to idk you may be bi. But if you want someone to talk to you can email if you want

Is my grandmother losing it?

Just leave her alone to her self if you dont want to do that then try to get her therapy. I dont think you can build a relationship with someone whose not willing to idk

Proper attire for my guy today.....?

We are invited to a summer graduation party on this sunny day of 70*. My hubby has a nice pair of khaki pants, but brown dress shoes would be too formal. Can he wear his Nike's with no socks? Or with socks? Or what?

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Why am i looked down upon for respecting men?

I don't see you as weak at all, as long as he submits to you as much as you submit to him. A relationship is a team, 50/50. It's kind of refreshing not to have feminism slapped in my face. What is so wrong with finding the good things in men and respecting them for it? I'm with you on this one as long as it is equal submission and not just on your part.

Is it normal that i dont want a girlfriend right now (14)?

That's normal. You're 14, you have plenty of time for somebody of the opposite sex to ruin your life.

I found my neighbors cat in our front yard its breathing was labored and it had blood in its mouth?

we think it was attacked by a coyote. Does the blood in the mouth, drool, mean it might have suffered internal damage? It had a bite on top of its head, that wasn't bleeding very bad. One side of its face was soaked with saliva when I first found it. I sat with it to make sure the coyote didn't come back and its breathing returned to normal. I put it in the neighbors garage until they get home in the morning. The cat was able to walk a little, and its breathing slowed back down, I'm wondering if the coyote was scared off in time and if the cat will have a chance of recovery if its okay until its owner returns. What should my neighbor do next if she comes home and the cat is okay?

If men had periods would a 'heavy flow' be seen by them as indicative of their masculinity?

Thats great.! I think if men had their periods they'd get pms week off. Tampon names wld be Rod or steel time.

Business attire outfit? this okay?

i love it! its very cute.. <3!!!! but i think the skirt need to down to knees because i recently did a school interview and i got dinged for wearing a mid-thigh skirt! so if u can pull it down a little :) hope this helps! :P

Why am i looked down upon for respecting men?

There is nothing wrong with respecting a man for being a man. I feel the same way and women always say things like I set women back 200 years and stuff. The fact is that mostly all of the world's cultures have had this way fo life so it is far more than a coincidence or fluke that they did.

Am I going into labour? 32 weeks pregnant-?

hey samantha, i'm 6 weeks pregnant and actually feeling a period cramp in my belly but its in my right side, and when i did have normal menstrual cycles it always hurt in my left side but it is normal i dont think you have much to worry about but if it happens over the next couple of nights you should see your doctor on friday and tell her that your a little worried, it may help if you take a nice hot bath before going to bed.... good luck hun xxx

What's the thought process behind splitting up the kids?

Well the elder boy would be happier and more at home staying with his mother and would probably like a chance to see her but what are the chances of her wanting to look after the "other woman"s baby. So the baby goes to a friend. Seems perfectly workable from here. It isnt all about practicality.

Men & Women with age?

I hear men age great or even look better at older ages while women look worse which i think is a load of $hit. I think men look their best in their 20s and 30s while women in their 30 and 40s. If they take good care of themselves they will always look good i mean look at Betty White shes 89 and still great. And also this maturity thing is bs women DONT mature faster if anything they mature slower and just become pretentious about it. Also i dont think women live longer also i think BIOLOGICALLY men do but because of lifestyles and what masculinity entails men have hortened theirs while women have not. ack to maturity women mature faster PHYSICALLY as in they hit puberty first but MENTALLY men mature faster. I also believe the woman should be older than the man in a relationship because of effectiveness in them like the "Cougar" relationships last much longer than their older man younger woman counterpart which infat are the worst kind of relationship which have the lowest success rates compared to same age and older woman younger man. I did this to correct some misconceptions

What to dress to look slimmer?

I find myself a little bit fat, but my boyfriend likes me like this, do not want me to lose weight. I love him, and want to do a lot of effort in my attire. Give me some advice!

Why is it that in modern day India women wearing certain western attire are still considered to be "indecent"?

Democracy &freedom enshrined in the law of Indian constitution enable our Indians to wear modern or western dress with boldness, which our old orthodox men fume.Even when there is no obscenity in them ,May be some time the sick/intolerant/unsocial could consider it indecent.May be our uneducated people could look at it as indecent in villages as they are not used to shorts/half-sleeve shirt.

How to know when a low dull back pain is preterm labor?

It could be, or you could have a bladder/kidney infection, or it could be that you pulled a muscle.. It's ALWAYS better to go in and get checked anytime your pregnant. Take some tylenol, try a warm bath and if you are still in a lot of pain I wouldn't hesitate for a minute to go in. Call a family member or friend, call a cab if you have to. If you are in preterm labor the hospital can give you medication to try to stop it. If is something else, (like a bladder infection) they would more than likely treat that with antibiotics. Good luck!

What can we do as a nation to actually FOLLOW what is in the bible more?

This is exactly why the bible is arguably the single most harmful piece of literature to ever be mass-published (it and the koran are basically side by side in that respect). So many christians and religion apologists claim that passages like these are no longer relevant, or that the old testament was canceled out by Jesus. If that is so, why do christian bibles still contain the old testament? If it has been rendered irrelevant to your belief, why is it still quoted by priests and pastors of so many christian sects?

Are platform heels 'appropriate' for work/business attire?

I would say yes. Plus, they will make you taller and you will look more professional. Remember, taller women make more money!

When you first go into labour?

is it possible that your stomach doesnt get hard with your first contractions i have a bad cramping on and off but my stomach hasnt get hard and it starts in my back and spreads into my stomach ill be 36 weeks tomorrow

How does the US National Boxing Tournament work?

I need to know the tournament format breakdown for the Amatuer US Nat'l Boxing Tournament (quarterfinals, semifinals, etc.). Also, do all the fights happen in one day? In other words, say I'm a middleweight, do I compete in all the quarterfinals, semifinals, medal fight, etc. all in one day? --I ask this because I know some fighting tournaments like K1 does this format. As well, is this tournament setup the same way as the Olympics (boxing attire, rounds, minutes, scoring, overall format)?

VIctoria Secret Interview?

Hi, I recently applied for a job at my local Victoria Secret, I got called for an interview this thursday and I am wondering what to wear. Here is the catch, I know to dress for success and mirror the sales asscoiates but I would like to dress nice and presentable in womens attire. I feel more comfortable in them and I still want to look presentable. Would me (being male) wearing womens clothes (even if still professional) qualify for being disqualified or no longer cosidered for the position?

Gay people : what if you're not really gay?

Alright!! You say that we want to "disturb nature" we don't want to disturb nature. We can't help being gay, or lesbian, or bi. Hell, I don't even think you can help being trangender. Now, here's a little experiment for you, I want you to TRY to be erotically stimulated by the same sex. TRY to enjoy sexual activities with the same sex. TRY to be in a commited relationship with the same sex. You can't turn gay overnight. You don't wake up one morning and say oh i'm going to like women for the rest of my life, i'm gay. No No No!! Did you choose to be staright? Of course not it came naturally. Well if you didn't get to choose to be straight,then why do you think we chose to be gay? And, you say being gay is wrong and God will judge us. Will god judge me for loving or you for hating. And if you want to get even deeper into religion, God loves us all. Please keep your negative comments to yourself. I respect your opinion, but please don't publicly bash us until you fully understand us. Each of us has a different story, and if you knew some of the hell we go through, you wouldn't be sitting there typing that. I, am a gay teen and I go through hell each and every day at school, I come to this section for guidance and freedom and yet I see THIS? Again, I respect your opinion, but please keep your thoughts to yourself.

Do Trial Lawyers give opening statements under oath?

I'M the plaintiff in a upcoming civil trial v ex-employer. Defense lawyer say its frivolous, he claims I'M trying to extort money from my old employer. he claims I made 2 other attempts 1-Unemployment benefits 2. U.S. Dept of Labor wage/hour (USDOL) and says I lost both. truth is #1. My State unemployment division will verify, I appealed the local denial of benefits, and our State's 3 panel Unemployment appeals judges reversed that and I got full benefits charged to the defendant's and # 2. I filed a USDOL claim in 2003, a few days before I was fired. They audited the business and ended 3 yrs later, Me and 65 others all got paid, money we'd been cheated of. Although due to what the investigator (USDOL) called a "Time Bar" i only got a portion of what i was owed. The U.S. Dept of Labor has verified they closed the case and collected for us. Plus, I have a 2007 IRS W-2 tax form from the company (Defendant) show that they paid me 4 yrs AFTER i was fired. I can prove the Lawyer statements are 100% false. Will that simply hurt his credibility or could he face some sanction or perjury? are lawyers statements in court filings under oath or not?

I have no guy-friends?

Have you had a boyfriend or anything before? Because maybe that's why you like every guy you meet because you're probably desperate. Not saying that as an insult but that happened to my friend once and someone that is not very cute would ask her out and she would automatically say yes and i would ask her if she even likes this person? And she would just say yes, To any boy. Its not just you, LOTS of girls like each guy they meet. Mostly the ones that only had 1 or 2 or none boyfriends.

What do I bring for after prom?

extra everything just in case. Does he have a pool or lake? bathing suit, liquor, shower stuff(shampoo, etc) your pillow if you don't want to use anyone Else's, condoms just in case (lol)

Do you think im right in this feud?

My advice would be don't let her actions affect how you act. Your husband's little sister is just young and immature and maybe lazy. She's just a teenager and probably doesn't have much going for her at the moment. You're married with a child. Be the adult and Invite her over sometimes, not just when you need help because she's not a slave! Act nicely towards her and encourage her, you might make a good impression on her and then there is no reason she would say anything bad about you. As for the baby shower, she probably won't want to go if she doesn't like babies so she's not going to be happy about it - try to respect that and don't push it. Take it easy and don't be drawn into an argument with her about anything. Set a good example.

Which of the two parties, on the opposite sides of the Atlantic, are more left wing?

America is a very right-wing country. Your Democrats are to the right of the Conservative party, let alone Labour.

41 weeks and 2 days pregnant, why does my doctor want to see me again?

Ok so I have had no signs of labor except the loss of my mucus plug which the rest of it came out yesterday, i ended up going to the hospital to see my doctor for it because i was concerned about the color.. it was a kinda yellowish green but he said it was perfectly normal. He ended up keeping me on the machine that monitors the babys heart rate and the moms contractions? im not sure of the actual name of it.. anyways, the babys heart rate was perfectly fine but i was still not having any contractions, so he ended up sending me home, which i was fine with. Today I had my regular prenatal appointment with the same doctor, he checked to see if i was dilated but apparently nothing has changed (im not dilated), and i told him i still had no signs of contractions. he told me he wants to see me first thing tomorrow morning at the hospital so he can monitor my contractions!?? i was just on the machine yesterday, i told him i still didnt have any contractions today, why would it be any different tomorrow?? He didn't mention inducing me or anything but could that be the case?? if it is why wouldnt he tell me? im just kinda scared and it seems stupid to want to bring me there to only monitor the contractions im not even having... im not sure what to expect, any ideas?

Halter showing attire?

What do I wear if I'm halter showing? I have no idea... Do I wear slacks? A hat? A nice shirt or a western show shirt?? Oh and what type of shoes? First time halter showing..... And my horse is a reddish chestnut if that helps!!!

Nerves? How to stand out? Reasonable requested pay? Also, what should I wear?

You might consider dressing to compliment your own best attributes, and I would suggest something feminine. Then I would include only one or maybe two articles of clothing that represents Hot Topic. However, if you are poor and can't afford to get new clothes, I wouldn't buy anything new. But if you can, you might consider that. Your shoes sound good as long as they're in good condition. You might be able to get $10.00 an hour there, I'm not really sure but you might consider just putting 'negotiable'. The jewelry sounds like a good idea too. Good luck =)

Is it rude to specify the attire your guests should wear?

I think that this action can definately turn people off and possibly offend them. Its fine to stress the importance of a formal or casual dress code, but actually telling the people in specifics to that degree is too far. Stating that formal attire is sufficient enough. Trust me, there will be people that will feel they may be underdressed as is when they get there and by stating what they have to wear will only make their fears or anxieties about the event worse. Just go with the formal requirement :)

Ur bored so make me an outfit !?

I'm bored too so I'm online shopping =P I'm girly & I also love to dress a little bit funky at times - not a lot funky just like to mix it up a little. Most days I am plain and low maintenence (or in my business attire) , so I'm looking for that new favorite outfit for going out ect! I am a young classy & confident chick so I can pull off whatever. Let's see what u got! 10 pts best answer &..... Go!!

How do I pay for occasional labor?

I'm starting a business and I have a friend that will be helping me out. She has no ownership of the business and will be working at her leisure (essentially) but not often enough, I feel, for me to go the independent contractor route. That would probably be a hardship for her as well to have to report self-employment taxes. How do I pay her properly and indicate that expense properly?

Are all ex-gays religious people?

You can't stop being gay or lesbian, or whatever the hell you are. It is pretty much hardwired into you. Those "ex-gay" organizations just stop you from engaging in being gay, but you will still be thinking about it and it will still be who you are.

What is "office attire" for girls?

I'm a 16 year old girl and I just got an internship at my local newspaper. I really want to be a journalist and this is an incredible opportunity for me. I'm a staff writer at my high school's newspaper and our advisor and editor-in-chief told me that at the newspaper I am going to be having my internship at people dress in "office attire." What is that exactly? I figure it means no jeans. I really like to wear dresses/skirts and low heels/flats. Will I be able to?

Why do feminists see masculinity as a disorder?

You`ve got a good point there about how our youth are treated like somebodies dog. The war on drugs would have been more efficient if it been against wrongful pharmaceuticals...like Ritalin and others that have a list of side effects as long as your arm ! Who`s pocket are the gov agencies in that are supposed to be safeguarding the public.... the dollar sign is the bottom line, as always.

Proper attire for applying for employment at a shoe store (footlocker, champs, footaction)?

I plan to apply at these three shoe retailers, and I understand that dress shirt shoes and slacks is the proper attire for searching for employment, but these are casual urban places, so would it be a good idea to wear this for applying at these places too?

Why do people hate Justin Beiber so much?

I think he is over publisized he is everywhere and his music isnt very good people are just getting tired of seeing and hearing him everywhere they go i know i am

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Is it strange that my wife wears neckties?

My wife works in a tax office and professional attire is required. Traditionally she has chose to wear menswear inspired suits, usually pinstripe suits with trousers, although sometimes with skirts. About two or three years ago she started to wear neckties with a dress shirt, with the suits quite often. She wears the tie just as a man would, tie tied tight, and top button done up. She has always worn her hair quite short, but this summer it is shorter than ever, clippered up the back, and her ears totally exposed. I worry that she may be conveying too masculine of an image. I took her out to dinner after work this past Friday, and I noticed people staring at her, and wispering God knows what. The thing is, she looks great, even sexy. This look really suits her. Is she out in left field fashion wise, or is she cutting edge?

How to be more knowledgeable about cars?

I want to know more about cars so I don't have to pay for labor and so I can fix up my own cars. What's the best way to do that without taking a class? I learn quickly on my own (I've taught myself several languages) so book titles would be helpful too.

Should i travel at this stage of pregnancy?

I'm 38 weeks now so being the baby is full term my doctor said I could pretty much have him any day now. My hospital is already 40 minutes away from my house and I'm wondering if I should chance a trip to my parents house 6 hours away for 4 days this weekend. I'm scared if I go down there and go into labor ill be stuck down there and be in a hospital with doctors I don't know and all that stuff. I've been having braxton hicks (what doctor said) so that makes me even more nervous. Have any first time moms gone into labor in their 38 or 39th week? How likely would it be or is it just a chance thing to go into labor now? Thanks!

Preterm labor or normal please help!!!! 32 weeks?

im having constatnt lower back pain lots of braxton hicks i think thats wht they are im not sure though but im having one at least every 10 to fifteen minutes they are lasting 30 to 45 seconds they do not hurt but they are a little uncomfortable i dont know if this is relevant but i did hav a bowl movement a little while ago it was green soft and mucusy me and my husband had sex about an hour before my back started hurting ive tried walking it off i took a bath and am now keeping track of my contractions should i call the birth center or am i just over think things my discharge hasnt changed at all i did eat quite a bit of salty foods today idk if that helps at all but i have drank two 1.5 litter watter bottles

What do you think of my story so far? the first chapter.?

It's great. But if you want all audiences to read this book, cut down on the language. Also i can't tell where the story is going. Try not to make it to repetitive!

Masturbation question?

masturbation is perfectly healthy and has no affect on growth whatsoever... good or bad... ur increase of height and deeper voice r just puberty. email me if u have more questions: georgeourtown@yahoo.com

Can you give birth to a premature baby at home?

Well, it's pretty simple for me: Child's rights are before Mother's rights. A newborn baby will most likely need immediate medical assistance, which are not available at home, so she would have to go to the hospital before giving birth.

Sims 2 & Sims 3 Wedding Question!!?

On both the Sims 2 and Sims 3, how do you get the person who you are going to marry to get dressed in their wedding attire? Like if I am playing a male sim, how do I get his fiance to change into her wedding dress on Sims 2? On Sims 3? Or if I am playing a female sim, how do I get her fiance to change into his tux on Sims 2? On Sims 3? Thanks!!

Question about the ring bearer?

Tell your sister to return the suit and YOU rent the tux for the little guy! Tell her she can buy him appropriate shoes, which will surely be less than what she spent on the suit. I know weddings can get expensive, but really, how much can this thing cost - $100 max??? Not worth bad blood in your family for years to come. It's your wedding and your vision, but you should step up and be the bigger and better person! And no offense intended, but if this relatively small amount of money is such a big deal, perhaps you are not in a financial position to get married just yet. Good luck!

What's your opinion of the thought that women wearing shorts & sleeveless attire are "indecent"?

Don't u think its high time the society changes its outlook and becomes a little more liberal? I can't see anything "indecent" about sleeveless attire or jeans.

Was I in labour last night? so confused!?

Last night around 1am I started to get extremely bad lower back pain and my uterus was kept going hard and it was very uncomfortable but I woke up this morning and the pains have completely gone?! I was gonna call my midwife last night but i was really tired and decided to do it this morning but now I have no pains... Im 37 weeks pregnant.

If a guy refuses to fart in front of his long term girlfriend, is that a sign that he lacks masculinity?

It is definately NOT a sign he lacks masculinity but rather that he is polite and consious of those around him. It is embarassing for the girl and the boy to fart in public. Our culture may feel men are more likely to fart in public but not other cultures. It is a great shame in many cultures for men to fart in front of others and is a sign of immaturity more than anything.

What is the likely hood of me going into labor sometime this week?

Today i turned 37 weeks and about a week ago i was 3cm dilated and 50% effaced, haven't been checked since. I have been having some cramping on and off, braxton hicks has become more frequent and stronger, been having to poop a lot (sorry to much info), baby has dropped a bit, lost my mucus plug a few weeks ago gradually, and had a bloody show about a week ago. Also been having some pelvic pressure and sometimes it feels like my tailbone is bruised and hurts to walk at times. I have been feeling very exhausted like i haven't slept in days even though i have been getting a lot of sleep. I also been having sharp stabbing pains in my cervix area as well as pressure. How likely do you think i will go into labor sometime this week or weekend? this is my 2nd baby. Thanks for your input!

Masculinity and femininities influences?

What are they i know the media plays a big part e.g. they portray the 'perfect man' what a man should look like what size they should be etc. but what else

This is so ME, but why do people call me a sl#ut?

Because you dress like one. You don't need buckets of makeup and barely there close to be feminine. And it's definitely not and attractive look, especially if you plan on having a meaningful relationship with another person. There are plenty of other ways to express yourself.

What is the most effective way to go into labor? Sex is not an option LOL?

i tried everything that was suggested to me, sex, hot curry, long walks nd nothing happened, i still had to be started off on the ward, hope something will work for you.

Baby position in the womb?

Sounds like what I am feeling and my little girl has been head down for months! If she was breach, you would know it!!!!! It hurts. Try pushing on the lump at the top of your belly. If the whole baby moves, it is the butt. If it feels like just the bump moves- it is the head.

Is my Blazer's Fuel Pump Bad?

It is a 2001 Chevy Blazer LS with the 4.3l v6. We were driving down the road and it quit on us. it is not the alternator because i had that tested. i was told to replace the distributor cap and rotor so i did that. i got it to start and it idles really rough. when you step on the gas the car dies. the fuel pump sounded really labored when it would prime the system. then the fuel pump stopped working and it would not start. 3 days later the fuel pump did kick on but sounded labored and again rough idle and would die when stepping on the gas. then the pump stopped working again. is this the sign of a bad fuel pump?

Critique my story so far? (there was more but i didnt have enough room)?

Oooh, intriguing! I liked it. What I found the most intriguing is the dream that Gabbi had at the end of your excerpt. The only thing I wish you would have done was given a bit of description about Gabs. Other than that, it was good!

Early labour or belly dropping?

I'm 39 weeks and I'm going through the same thing except I'm having cramps going across the middle of my belly. My doctor says its early labor. You need to go to the doc just to make sure. Also if it is early labor, this could last for weeks. Good luck

How do i know if i am in labour?

i am currently 36 weeks pregnant, i had a midwife appointment last tuesday and was told im not engaged but i am starting to feel very tight down there with alot of pressure. I constantly feel like i am leaking even though there is nothing there. About two weeks ago i was told that my plug has broken but i dont understand how if i am not engaged. I am starting to feel cramping very bad which started at about 10pm last night..... could i be in labour?

Help with a twist for a masculinity based short-story?

I'm writing a short story for an assignment at school and the theme is masculinity. The main character of my story is a boy who always tries to be cool and fit the stereotype of a man even though he is quite shy. He gets invited to this party by one of his cooler class mates and he decides to bring his girl friend to the party who thinks he is actually homosexual. He tries to act cool and sort of impress the person who invited him by being really chauvinistic and treating his girlfriend badly. What twist could there be at the end? 10 points to the best answer

What Phases Did You Go Through?

When I was a kid I would only wear t shirts, shorts, overalls and stretchy pants. Then my mom was all like okay your in middle school now you gotta start wearing cool clothes! Then my 8th and 9th grade I wanted to be a prep. 10th grade after seeing a Killers concert <3 I wanted to be sort of punky. Soon my teacher was all like you should wear suits! I did. 11th grade I was feeling that I was getting old! I was 16 and I bought more suits and like business attire. I went through a crazy OCD thing and went back to the tshirts with dress pants or sweatpants. 12th grade I stole my daddys flannel and wore jeans, sweats, and the dress pants. Now? In college I wear my sweats and t-shirts. I never did really like girly clothes, I always felt out of place. I think Im myself, with the mix of dress pants t-shirts, sweats, and the occasional pair of jeans. <3

Guys without...............?

What's your opinion on guys without body hair. I think it kinda takes them down a few levels on the masculinity scale. I mean if it's natural then fine but if they shave it? I'm not talking about facial hair, just leg, arm, chest, pit, belly, and pubes.

How do I pay for occasional labor?

I'm starting a business and I have a friend that will be helping me out. She has no ownership of the business and will be working at her leisure (essentially) but not often enough, I feel, for me to go the independent contractor route. That would probably be a hardship for her as well to have to report self-employment taxes. How do I pay her properly and indicate that expense properly?

End of Men:does this feminist article seem to celebrate the decline of men?

I dont get it, as a woman i want men around. and i want them to have the bigger balls. but i guess im the crazy one.

Black boys: What is your definition of "masculinity"?

Apparently, some black boys think they're more masculine than white men which completely dumbfounds me. I mean, what do you consider masculine? Killing someone? I'll tell you what I consider masculine: having a job and sticking around to take cafe of your wife/girlfriend and/or children and being a role model for them. Unlike white men, black boys aren't exactly known for that.

What do you love about femininity or masculinity?

men: manly hands. when you can tell what they are thinking through their eyes (sorry, that can be for both sexes.) strong/ angular jaws. lots of stuff, but mainly character qualities.

Which political party says this?

The __________ Party USA is the party of and for the U.S. working class, a class which is multiracial, multinational, and unites men and women, young and old, employed and unemployed, organized and unorganized, gay and straight, native-born and immigrant, urban and rural, and composed of workers who perform a large range of physical and mental labor—the vast majority of our society. We are the party of the African American, Mexican American, Puerto Rican, all other Latino American, Native American, Asian American, and all racially and nationally oppressed peoples, as well as women, youth, and all other working people.

Black culture and masculinity?

WHere can i find text or website that might shine some factual insight on the meaning of masculine, in the eyes of a black man? Or Opinions.I Im writing about the expectations of ones self, preferably males because this would be something that concerns them in particular. But in contrast to that thought, Masculinity does it have an orientation? Can women remind you of masculine and how? Is masculine lught dark, none?

What specific characteristics do you consider to show strong & attractive masculinity?

Confidence is the main thing definitely. A confident man doesn't need to "act like a man" and he doesn't need a woman who "acts like a woman should" in order for him to feel more like a man. To me thats the main thing, just be you and happy, and that works for men and women just the same. Have the confidence to be yourself and as a man it will appeal to women, and same for vice versa.

Is it true that Muslim women are forbidden to wear pants?

No they can wear anything they want as long as it covers the body and parts will not show. Muslims has many different schools and teachings and only few are strict and have hard orders to follow.

Ur bored so make me an outfit !?

I'm bored too so I'm online shopping =P I'm girly & I also love to dress a little bit funky at times - not a lot funky just like to mix it up a little. Most days I am plain and low maintenence (or in my business attire) , so I'm looking for that new favorite outfit for going out ect! I am a young classy & confident chick so I can pull off whatever. Let's see what u got! 10 pts best answer &..... Go!!

Can Metro-sexuality lead to Homosexuality.?

no, we just used to call them sissies in the old days , now metrosexuals . different to homosexuals some of them can be the most butch manly men

Do you personally know any masculine gay men?

Not online, but in real life? I'm asking this because I'm gay and I went to a gay club the other night. The club was filled with effeminate gay men. There weren't any masculine gay men there that I could see. It's really frustrating for me. I'm sick of being alone, and I really want a boyfriend. I have nothing against effeminate gay men, but I don't find them to be attractive. I'm attracted to masculinity and not effeminacy. I'm really upset about this.

What that marvel, black, bio book called?

It big and black. Has like a orange star cardboard cutout layered ontop of the book and it has marvel characters on it. it talks about the history of some of the characters in the book. And the attired etc.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Looking for the name of an HBO short on teen pregnancy.?

I need the name of the HBO short about a pregnant black teen who hides her pregnancy, then goes into labor and places her baby in a dumpster, only to rescue it from certain death as the garbage company arrives to dump the bin.

Hey folks, could you double check my list?

I tried to see my aura before and it looked all wonky and i failed at it. It was purple and green. Im far from cleansed and im not in harmony right now so im not sure if thats right.

My brother is gay. How do I tell him I know?

I think you should wait until he is ready to tell you or to tell everyone. Bringing it up may be a little awkward for him if he is not ready to come out or if he hasn't accepted the fact that he is gay.

CVS, not eligible for rehire?? how can i move forward?

You should talk to their HR department. You might need to get a letter the verify that you were working as her caregiver.

Is my cat going into labor?

We don't know exactly how long she's been pregnant but we know it's around a month and a half or more. It's 9:am and ever since 3am she's been meowing A LOT more than usual and she can't seem to get comfortable. She was being very affectionate earlier and i suspected something so i put her in the box i set up for her and now she's laying in there and still can't seem to get comfortable. She's also breathing kind of hard but not panting.. Is she going into labor?

Unable to understand the contents of Ramanjuan "lost notebooks". How to get help interpreting them?

One of the greatest indian mathematicians Ramanujan died at 32 only. He never went to university or school. He was self-taught in math and did home study only without any kind of textbook. Also he was poor man and unskilled labor jobs is all he did. However, in his notebook he created very amazing formulas for 1/pi and similar stuff, which happened to be extremely accurate. He created a series of notebooks known as "lost notebooks". All these notebooks were prior to 1920 and were hand-written. Those hand-written pages of his notebook have now been scanned and uploaded on internet in the link below. However, I do not understand anything in his lost notebooks. I am a math major in university. I graduate next year, but I cannot make heads nor tails of his notebook material. How did Ramanuja create such stuff on his own without any schooling or education? That too when he was poor man. These notebooks are over 90 years old, and even today the material seem so hard to understand.

Your opinion on guys who pee sitting down?

I think that guys who feel the need to pee standing up to prove their masculinity are insecure about their... manliness. Also the bathroom is SO MUCH cleaner with no droplets on the seat or around the toilet and no more nagging from having the toilet seat up.

Why do some people think feminism demonizes masculinity?

Is this just more anti-feminist propaganda? Or can you give me any real, credible, sources that show that feminism does this?

Do we have to pay the mechanic if they can't fix the problem?

Our Honda had a major transmission problem and we sent it to this mechanic which, after 3 months of rebuilding and installing and such, still can't fix it. They figured that it was an electrical problem and he really doesn't specialize in that. The problem is, if we decide to tow it out of his shop and into the actual Honda dealership, do we still have to pay him? We haven't talked to him yet, but we really don't want to pay because he didn't fix it, despite the fact that he probably spent a lot of money buying parts and new transmissions (he replaced the transmission three times) and labor.

Confused by the following 'terms of endearment' - darlin, love, sweetheart?

I am a girl too and have wondered this in the past. I think it depends on who is using them. If it is guys that you know and are friends with it could be just showing they care. I often call close friends of either gender hun or sweetie. It's how I show they mean something to me or that I care. If it is guys that you have barely met it could be a couple of reasons. They could either not remember your name, be trying to make an impression that they are interested or it's just their personality. I find that most older men do it more in a fatherly way than to assert authority.

Second pregnancy baby dropped?

This is my second pregnancy and I am roughly 34-35 weeks. I noticed that I had dropped or "lightened" yesterday. I never dropped with my first until I was at the hospital in labor. I am sure baby dropped because I can see toes again, my boobs don't sit on my belly anymore, I can breath, sit, sleep and eat so much easier. It feels like I am 6 months pregnant again! My question is does this mean anything to how soon labor will come? I've only read that for subsequent pregnancies dropping doesn't normally happen except right before labor. Anyone have similar second pregnancy experience and if so what was the outcome ?

Buisness causal for interview?

I have upcoming interview and The lady stated that its buisness casual so need details about what to wear. I was thinking a ruffled wrap with cami and trousers or cardigan with trousers maybe heels or flats....Most of my dressy attire for situations like this are more fall wear. Does that matter?

I have a few questions about working for Dish Network?

I had an interview at Echo-Star in Harlingen, TX on 6/09/2011. I went through the computer test, the voice test (speaking into the microphone), two interviews with the managers. And then I was drug-tested. But does that mean that they will hire me or at least thinking about hiring me? I know minimum age says 18, but I am 17, and my birthday is 7 weeks away. I wore business casual attire, and acted professionally, but do you think that was good enough? I have stressed about getting this job, because to me I take everything and every opportunity that comes my way very important and seriously. Thanks for any advice or thoughts.

Can employer cut labor hours?

I work for auto mechanic shop. I work for commission on just labor, not parts. If a job calls for 2.5 hours and i am only getting paid for 1.5, is this legal?

Rdr I got the gentalmens attire but it's not there on my new game?

in the game part of the ps3 (the scroll down thing) you can scroll down to a part that says gentlemens attire click it and let it load and it will load into the game

Help!!! the relationship between masculinity and cruelty in macbeth?

plz help. i need to write a 300-600 word essay on the relationship between masculinity and cruelty in william shakespeares play macbeth. no website links plz. thnx

Family wagon train/pioneer vacation...kid friendly!?

I am looking for a vacation that lets you live the pioneer lifestyle...think Laura Ingalls Wilder...I know all about the Laura Ingalls Highway and historic museums...and as much I do plan to do that someday...I am more interested in something just in that style but more hands on. I want to have rustic accomidations, wagon trains, and themed attire. I want to dress/live/travel like they did in the pioneer days...I need family friendly as I have 3 kids I am taking with. I want eduational and fun...crafts...one room school house...little city church...the whole atmosphere! Where can I go to get something like that? Any ideas?

Im 38 weeks - scared of labour. any helpful tips for when Im labour?

Right before you start labor you will have a really big burst of energy, most women start cleaning the house or doing something else really productive.

What makes you LGB or S?

I'm bisexual, and I like guys bodies cause of the masculinity - i.e. muscles, body hair. I like girls bodies cause of their curves, how smooth, and soft they are. How bout you?

Im going to Yosemite for labor day weekend but was unable to get a half dome permit, is is still wort it?h?

Hiking/biking was the main purpose of the trip but considering how impossible it it go get half dome hiking permits I was unable to. Is there still other trails worth hiking? Is the permit only for the cables? Can someone help out a little its gonna be my first time. Thanks

Proper first day at work attire at major financial bank?

This is going to be in NYC. Any need to go full blown suit and tie? or just a nice dress shirt and tie okay?

My brother is a young 17 year old who dresses as a girl..?

My brother came out of the closet a few years ago... he believes he's a girl trapped in a boys body.. i accept that. I come from a Mexican family and my dad is doing his best to get used to it, but his side of the family talk a lot of ****. They make indirect comments but you know what they are aiming at. I could care less, but my dad.. my poor dad... it feels as they are taking a hit at my dads masculinity because its his son. A few days ago my uncle invited my dad to go over his house for a birthday... n the whole night my uncle kept talking about how his son being "muy hombresito" or very much a man cuz he has had girlfriends and has a girlfriend.. he just made comments like look at MY SON he gets girls He's a such a stallion he's a man... n then my other uncle said.. like father like son. he said all that in front of my dad... he was hurt ...upset. Idk what to do. I get so mad because that's such a low blow. And my dad.. :( what should I do?

How does he have the nerve to do something like this? I want to be this bold. How can I?

My best friend is a guy. I really dont think he's gay but I really don't care. He's my best friend. Anyways, he's a cosmetic artist at the M.A.C. Store. He's amazing at it too. He does my makeup for big events. I've seen him make 40 year old women look like they're 25. He stands there proudly while pickup truck cowboys (who know nothing about masculinity) point and laugh. How is he this confident and brave?

African-American labor movements of the late nineteenth century often?

Often had a hard time, no doubt. There was something about that in ROOTS--someone, randolph, began to organize the black railroad workers, but it was tough.

Increase Maculinity for Gay Men?

I'm gay guy and very effeminate ! I don't hate myself for being Homosexual ! But I need to develop Masculinity to work, perform better in Professional fields ! Can anyone give me the Names of any Male Hormones that can help me !! Or Give me a Doctors name or websites Name so that I can discuss and find out a Solution !!

Do I have to buy a lavish gift?

My H agreed to be in a friend's wedding about four months ago. When he agreed, the bride and groom told us that the attire for the groomsmen would be low-key sort of beachy attire (khaki shorts and tux shirts). Now, two weeks before the wedding the bride went all bridezilla and decided that the men all had to be in tuxes, and now we have to spend about twice what we had budgeted for and only have two weeks to come up with the extra $$. We are on a VERY tight budget, and my question is this - since they sort of sprung this on us, do we have to spend as much on their wedding gift as we normally would on someone else? Basically the only place the extra $$ for the tux can come from is from what we budgeted for their gift. Is this tacky to not buy them something expensive, or am I right in being a bit miffed because of the sudden change in everything and the upheaval it has done to our whole budget??

What do you prefer bartenders to wear?

Honestly, I like a lot of skin and a nice bouncy rack in my female bartenders. But I'm sure you could do fine at a nice conservative place.

Men have ever been feminized by a woman and forced to work as a house wife or tied and gaged or teased?

forcibly dressed as a woman and ordered to serve women dance or act in front of them? or have ever forced to participate to an school drama or a drill or a dressing game dressed in female attire

Monday, July 11, 2011

How long after do you normaly go into labour after "dropping"?

i know there is no time limit for this thing. so just tell me what you have heard, know somebody who has been through this or you have. this is my first pregnancy im 34-35 weeks pregnant and my belly has dropped.

Poll:Men only question about balls.?

READ WHOLE QUESTION!!! if it did not interrupt your masculinity or your libido or your ability to achieve an erection and feel sexual pleasure, and the surgery is painless and free and you can put sperm in the sperm bank in case you wanna have kids someday.Would you have your scrotum and the testicles therein removed so it wouldn't hurt if you got kicked there and you'd never sit on them again etc. and for those that wouldn't do it wouldyou do it if it made your penis bigger?P.S. the women who see it are either ambivilant or really happy so it doesn't make it any harder or easier to get laid.