I am human and I am not to ask this, but why would God create us this way?

I'm not only talking about beauty or wealth or fame, because I suppose these things are only desirable in the human mind. Yet, I am talking about these things because the Bible speaks of men being youthful and attractive or women being beautiful... etc. and the Bible describes these things as something man should want or feel is better than not having. I am a handsome fellow I would suppose, but I know men that are gorgeous, and I know men that are not handsome at all. I never judge this or make fun. I more question why a loving God could create a being that would hurt so badly deep inside, crippling them from using their full talent because of the shame or insecurity of hearing of the virility, masculinity, strength and beauty of another man (or woman respectively) even by his Christian peers. "He is so goodlooking", "She is so pretty too!"... the word of God condones it... May I ask for forgiveness in saying this now, but this is a FLAW in His creation. The spirit is broken by those who get more or less because of the way they look or are built.